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Neulich hat mich eine Situation sehr \u00fcberrascht. Ich war zum Kontroll-Besuch beim Arzt und wurde ganz selbstverst\u00e4ndlich gefragt, \u00ab Darf ich Sie untersuchen ? \u00bb. Das war Neu !<\/h2>\n

Das Thema hat mich besch\u00e4ftigt.<\/p>\n

Es ist mir erst richtig bewusst geworden, dass man im Alltag selten gefragt wird.<\/p>\n

Und tut man dies nicht, ist man selbst schuld. \u00ab H\u00e4ttest Du doch was gesagt \u00bb, heisst es dann. Oder \u00ab Wie h\u00e4tte ich es wissen sollen ? \u00bb.<\/p>\n

Und das war\u2019s. Was einem bleibt ist das Schuldgef\u00fchl, wenn einem hinterher klar wird, dass man etwas hat \u00fcber sich ergehen lassen. W\u00e4hrend der Andere sich vor seiner Verantwortung dr\u00fcckt, weil er Sie f\u00fcr einverstanden erkl\u00e4rt hat. Hey, STOP Mal.<\/p>\n

Wie w\u00e4r\u2019s mit Fragen ? Ich meine nat\u00fcrlich, bevor man aktiv wird. Gl\u00fccklicherweise sind es oft harmlose Situationen, in denen man zu sp\u00e4t bemerkt, dass man eigentlich nicht wollte.<\/p>\n

Zum Beispiel, wenn einem immer wieder das Weinglas gef\u00fcllt wird, obwohl man keinen Durst mehr hat ; oder man sich pl\u00f6tzlich an einem Ort befindet, an den man gar nicht wollte.<\/h2>\n

Es wird frech und mit grosser Selbstverst\u00e4ndlichkeit f\u00fcr einem mitentschieden. Wir m\u00fcssen aufpassen, denn diesen \u00dcbergriffigkeiten sind wir tagt\u00e4glich ausgesetzt. Unsere Grenzen werden leichtfertig missbraucht. Wenn wir dies zulassen, f\u00fchlen wir uns danach schlecht, besch\u00e4mt und unser Selbstwertgef\u00fchl purzelt in den Keller. W\u00fcrden wir aber gefragt werden, dann m\u00fcssten wir nachdenken, uns verantwortlich zeigen und zu unserem Standpunkt stehen.<\/p>\n

So zu handeln ist f\u00fcr beide Parteien nicht einfach, denn der Fragende setzt sich einem \u00ab Nein \u00bb aus und der Befragte muss f\u00fcr sich einstehen. In den anderen F\u00e4llen gibt es nur diese L\u00f6sung : Bleiben Sie immer wachsam, achten Sie auf Ihre Bef\u00fcrfnisse und respektieren Sie sich !<\/p>\n

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Tauschen wir uns \u00fcber Ihre Bed\u00fcrfnisse aus?<\/h2>\n

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\u200b\"EFFETILT<\/p>\n

Nathalie Haberstroh<\/h3>\n

1 rue des Chevaliers de Malte
Palais Castilhon BAT B
34970 Lattes \u2022 France<\/h4>\n

0033 667 10 22 77<\/h4>\n

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\u200b\"EFFETILT<\/p>\n

Nathalie Haberstroh<\/h3>\n

1 rue des Chevaliers de Malte
Palais Castilhon BAT B
34970 Lattes \u2022 France<\/h4>\n

0033 667 10 22 77<\/h4>\n

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Tauschen wir uns \u00fcber Ihre Bed\u00fcrfnisse aus?<\/h2>\n

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