{"id":1726,"date":"2023-06-26T15:55:13","date_gmt":"2023-06-26T13:55:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/effetilt.com\/ein-schoenes-maedchen-wie-du\/"},"modified":"2023-07-28T17:31:19","modified_gmt":"2023-07-28T15:31:19","slug":"ein-schoenes-maedchen-wie-du","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nathalie-haberstroh.com\/de\/ein-schoenes-maedchen-wie-du\/","title":{"rendered":"Ein sch\u00f6nes M\u00e4dchen wie Du !"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Jedem sein K\u00e4stchen<\/h2>\n

Seit einiger Zeit achte ich mehr auf die Bemerkungen der Leute, denen ich begegne. In der Praxis, im Familienkreis, in der Warteschleife des Supermarktes.<\/p>\n

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Es wurde mir bewusst, wie oft wir durch unsere Ausdrucksweise andere Menschen beurteilen und durch diese, gewisse Erwartungen zum Ausdruck bringen.<\/p>\n

So sagen wir Dinge wie \u00ab Ein sch\u00f6nes M\u00e4dchen wie Du sollte (oder nicht)\u2026 \u00bb, \u00ab Ach wie schade\u2026 \u00bb, Du hast so viel Talent, Du kannst nicht\u2026 \u00bb, \u00ab Du solltest\u2026 \u00bb, \u00ab Ich fand es vorher besser\u2026 \u00bb.<\/p>\n

Wie oft stimmen wir somit \u2013 ganz unbeabsichtigt \u2013 in eine kollektive Meinung mit ein, und ordnen die Menschen in K\u00e4stchen.<\/p>\n

Es gibt das K\u00e4stchen f\u00fcr das sch\u00f6ne M\u00e4dchen, den intelligenten Jungen, sch\u00f6ne K\u00f6rper, dicke Menschen, die T\u00e4towierten, K\u00fcnstler und viele weitere.<\/h2>\n

Jeder von uns hat sein K\u00e4stchen und wir haben wenig Rechte \u2013 schon gar nicht das Recht, unseren Platz zu verlassen !<\/p>\n

Daf\u00fcr haben wir Pflichten.<\/p>\n

Sch\u00f6ne M\u00e4dchen m\u00fcssen immer sch\u00f6n aussehen, kurze Shorts sind f\u00fcr schlanke Leute gemacht, weite Kleidung dient denen, die etwas zu verbergen haben. Augenringe werden nur hinter der Schminke versteckt toleriert. Die neue Frisur muss Ihnen besser stehen als die Alte, was Sie anziehen Ihre Vorz\u00fcge hervorheben, das Auto Sie sexy machen und so weiter.<\/p>\n

Was uns selbst wichtig ist, unsere Beweggr\u00fcnde, werden nicht ber\u00fccksichtigt. Wir m\u00fcssen dem Pflichtenheft des Allgemeinbilds entsprechen.<\/p>\n

Im anderen Fall bekommen wir etwas zu h\u00f6ren !<\/p>\n

Auf implizite Weise erkl\u00e4ren wir bei jeder Gelegenheit, was die Anderen tun d\u00fcrfen und was nicht.<\/h2>\n

So lange sie nicht auffallen und brav in unser Weltbild passen.<\/p>\n

Sie haben sicherlich schon jedemanden aufschreien h\u00f6ren \u00ab Ich habe ja nichts gegen Freik\u00f6rperkultur, aber diese alten schrunzeligen K\u00f6rper sollten doch lieber einen Badeanzug tragen \u00bb oder \u00ab was mich am Strand wirklich st\u00f6rt ist der Anblick der dicken und h\u00e4sslichen Menschen \u00bb.<\/p>\n

Wir wollen ein passendes, sch\u00f6nes Ergebnis vor Augen haben. Sicherlich ist uns dieses Verhalten nicht immer bewusst, wir bemerken oft gar nicht, dass unsere harmlosen \u00c4usserungen regelrechte Beleidigungen sind und welche Konsequenzen sie auf diese Menschen und die Allgemeinheit haben k\u00f6nnen.<\/p>\n

Vielleicht sollten wir uns selbst etwas besser zuh\u00f6ren oder eher noch, unsere Gedanken \u00fcberpr\u00fcfen. Bevor wir sie aussprechen. Und regelm\u00e4ssig in den Spiegel schauen\u2026 . .<\/p>\n

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Tauschen wir uns \u00fcber Ihre Bed\u00fcrfnisse aus?<\/h2>\n

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Nathalie Haberstroh<\/h3>\n

1 rue des Chevaliers de Malte
Palais Castilhon BAT B
34970 Lattes \u2022 France<\/h4>\n

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\u200b\"EFFETILT<\/p>\n

Nathalie Haberstroh<\/h3>\n

1 rue des Chevaliers de Malte
Palais Castilhon BAT B
34970 Lattes \u2022 France<\/h4>\n

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Tauschen wir uns \u00fcber Ihre Bed\u00fcrfnisse aus?<\/h2>\n

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